BE YOU!

1. Know your Self: How can you begin to allow your authentic Self to come forward if you don’t know who that is? First you must do the work to dig out that real You buried deep inside of you, under the weight of your parent’s expectations, your friends’ expectations, society’s expectations, your expectations… who is the genuine You? It helps if you think back to the carefree kid you once were… children are authentic Beings, until society’s mass limited beliefs start to affect them ...

2. Be your Self: It is one thing to know who you truly are, and another to have the courage to BE that person. Take it one day at a time, and have the courage to Be who you truly ARE. Express yourself with your clothes, your music, your house, your friends, your activities, your hobbies. Have the courage to feel, to dance with life ...to know that it doesn’t matter if you are the only person you know that likes what you like, that thinks the way you do, and that does what you do…. that’s what makes you YOU!!!

3. Love your Self: The law of attraction means that we attract what we are. So LOVE yourself. Wake up in the morning and look yourself in the eye and say ‘I love you’...no matter what you have done or experienced in the past! Take a shower and pour loving energy into your body as you wash it and get out of the shower and say with joy, ‘I accept, love, respect and honour Me!’. Choose your clothes with love, your food with love, your friends with love, your thoughts and actions with love! Be nothing but Love to your Self, and do not beat yourself up if you are not now and then ... It is a process of time to honour our self! Bring as much Love as you can into your self and consequently to the world, and then watch it spread ...

4. Honour your Self: You are sacred, and precious, and valuable, and unique, and beautiful, no matter what you believed until now! Treat your Self as such - choose foods and drinks that honour you, music and activities that honour you, friends, family and other people that honour you. Honour your Self in your actions toward your Self, your words toward your Self and your thoughts toward your Self.

5. Trust your Self: Once you know your Self, and are being your Self, and loving and honouring your Self… then you will realise that you can trust your Self. YOU ALWAYS know what is best for you. You know what to do in any given moment. YOU KNOW! This is not listening to the mind or the ego or the doubts or the fears… but connecting and listening and trusting your Authentic Self ...your self that always brings a good feeling of peace and joy to YOU!

6. Master your life: Your authentic Self encompasses your mind, body and soul. When you are your Self, you only think thoughts that honour and love you, and create what it is that you want to create. When you are your Self, you only speak words that are true and loving. When you are your Self, you only take action that serves the whole, that works for the greatest good of all and not only of one. No one else is over you, except You. When you are your Self, you Master your Life and feel in control like you have never imagined you could be!

7. Surrender your Self: As you step more and more into your Authentic Self, you will feel, understand and experience the amazing sense and truth of Oneness that exists between all of life. You will know that you are here to serve the Higher Good of all humanity, because you are one with all humanity. This means that you surrender your Self to the higher good. You don’t take actions for your own personal gain, but for the gain of all. Because if the whole loses, then you lose, as you are part of the Whole. Surrendering helps us flow with all that presents to us ... Refusing, resisting and struggling with situations and people actually feels like hitting or pushing a wall ...

8. Accept your Self: As you continue along your path, surrendering to your highest potential that you can bring forth into this world, you may find that it is not what you had planned for your Self. It is not what you wanted for your Self. Being authentic doesn’t mean that you won’t encounter pain any more, it doesn’t mean that you won’t go through challenges anymore… it just means that you recognise these situations for what they are and it then allows you to experience them with peace and understanding. Just as the steel must be heated in the depths of the fire to find it’s shape, so too must we experience changes and growth. Accept your path, and therefore your Self and your higher will.

As you master your self, you can not help but be this way toward all others as well - toward ALL of humanity. Because the authentic Self knows that all is one. There is no difference between you and I. We love the same, fear the same, feel the same… we ARE the same ...we only choose different life experiences ...

We are each as unique as a snowflake, each and everyone beautiful in our own way, here on this earth to do different things in different ways ...

Eveline and Franco