Is that so?
Here’s a little story from Eckhart Tolle.
“The Zen Master Hakuin lived in a town in Japan.
He was held in high regard and many people came to him for spiritual teaching.
Then it happened that the teenage daughter of his next-door neighbour became pregnant.
When being questioned by her angry and scolding parents as to the identity of
the father, she finally told them that he was Hakuin, the Zen Master.
In great anger the parents rushed over to Hakuin and told him with much
shouting and accusing
that their daughter had confessed that he was the father.
All he replied was. “Is that so?”
News of the scandal spread throughout the town and beyond.
The Master lost his reputation.
This did not trouble him.
Nobody came to see him anymore.
He remained unmoved.
When the child was born, the parents brought the baby to Hakuin. “You are the
father, so look after him.”
The master took loving care of the child.
A year later, the mother remorsefully confessed to her parents that the real
father of the child was the young man who worked at the butcher shop.
In great distress they went to see Hakuin to apologize and as for forgiveness.
“We are really sorry. We have come to take the baby back. Our daughter
confessed that you are not the father.”
“Is that so?” is all he would say as he handed the baby over to them.
The Master responds to falsehood and truth, bad news and good news, in exactly
the same way: “Is that so?”
He allows the form of the moment, good or bad, to be as it is and so does not
become a participant in human drama.
To him, there is only this moment, and this moment is as it is.
Events are not personalized.
He is nobody’s victim.
He is so completely at one with what happens that what happens has no power
over him anymore.
Only if you resist what happens are you at the mercy of what happens, and the
world will determine your happiness and unhappiness.
The baby is looked after with loving care. Bad turns into good through the
power of non-resistance.
Always responding to what the present moment requires, he lets go of the baby
when it is time to do so.
Imagine briefly how the ego would have reacted during the various stages of the unfolding of these events.”
We wish you a great non-resisting day!
Eveline and Franco